[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  Q" g( k! k9 l2 y. o4 U1 l
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; h  S7 H* ^+ b& z' z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& P3 s8 L2 z& S. I2 N
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 i" E9 E' J- f
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区+ k" k$ q" b! C: N! J; T+ @! t' X

1 P( @! z2 f, h% N1 r) gcsuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ O, ^# y6 ]8 A+ ?# }# F" E0 hPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 l9 U9 h( I6 F" }  ]  V$ v

% `/ D) z- {2 O" M6 v6 HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区9 ?/ d. P4 v, s" G% s
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. csuchen.de+ k8 H6 ~& \5 [6 D; q# m- w8 \

; K- H7 |: t0 c* {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # \; f$ c. g3 D
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  @: V4 C& f- X$ O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 S/ d. V; U0 S6 O: B
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. & n4 G& Q# n! `9 ]) q) v( C
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3 q; c  {* E& e4 l$ c5 A, [& Bcsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 g+ o" ?' b  O$ }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; D/ a: K1 W8 @! P

7 R7 M2 P  y& D4 n4 XThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& T* q, j- d- t9 U/ _+ e! g人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# o; s& h. j6 q0 i* @' h人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 {4 ~3 _& X, j' P  H& v
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 F( }/ J# y) _( ~& [  s. t- X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."