[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 S# m9 v* m, y; b1 |- c7 o3 m
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。csuchen.de2 Q' ^7 N1 `# F$ }

: |9 X2 R6 a  k6 Y3 p- h! |, x7 R人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 g! \% w, T3 `/ k

) V; e2 F3 m: z5 o# K根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ z- @3 @5 [2 T% V, t" }/ L
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ j' Z$ Z2 s% f0 p0 NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " @. U: C/ }: P/ Y' ~

9 m% w( [' A2 m& ^' JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区1 ?6 N% W9 n3 J( t& i
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". csuchen.de1 r  T# q9 K* m& `

2 n1 A- g$ G1 q0 `/ Z$ w, f% r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / s0 |3 F4 w, e# R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 t. c% n+ J4 ]# i9 u4 \5 `* o7 p" kSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 }  M$ M& n9 s' C: E8 ~人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * H/ e% ^1 `, @7 J% @* R% k; y4 t

6 e9 X+ R1 _2 |3 a" k3 bBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de! Z. ]4 i0 j( W" P8 A" ^
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  u: F( \0 n4 T"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."