[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. N2 O& K7 K) M- Z! R1 g

" \7 }  d+ u" n' c" y- E; j人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 ~' v- L8 x4 y% R) y6 {$ p- Y! m研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, E9 ~" M5 d0 j# h) V+ {5 `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区, ^  q1 y$ ?. t) F0 p
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 E7 q8 ?9 H# i4 Y- _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 L8 G" o5 {: }5 _
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % m+ Q* r9 G. W; x1 @

2 ^. z& y* e; K' g; T# ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ D! t& L+ V# x"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de  F8 {% y1 Z* Z/ Q

4 {1 @7 B, [8 g1 |  H, ]! S5 Y' {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) c& e; H8 k9 {. S$ {

) d, s5 j' R# B; m8 tUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 |. t7 Y7 b, f
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 I0 T7 U" w0 E' Z
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3 W: ~; E( ?1 x- \Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " ^+ b0 W/ s( t7 R4 T( A

+ a/ H( W; _- J7 KThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: Z+ u6 Y2 S& T4 y, MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % j( ]: V: K1 m9 e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de/ ]2 i8 @% B' S4 H+ Y4 B6 q

5 x9 F9 S; X/ ]/ scsuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " Q* U' R& T( H

9 G% }+ I2 r8 K6 |csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."