[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 k/ u0 b; c: b! X3 W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 a& ^  R7 D. w0 S; Z! t2 P# C人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: I% ]* C2 M8 sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区5 l( F0 H* s5 c# E' [2 V" x

* y9 I; K, Z6 p; x0 M. V. pHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   W7 B0 D& M' L+ L% ~; v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 S8 f* H& |/ A" i$ X) b1 a5 y- q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区) O  C2 G* L9 T2 `$ F5 W$ O# w

' U' h* d, F4 I5 r$ ?The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' X: l& f0 F6 {9 Z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' B6 N/ p. [# B" p/ ?: D2 Ycsuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% F" z9 _/ u* t; O: }

: z8 _  @/ Q: ~9 |' {( D6 VUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( `6 W! Y; Q3 V4 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区) s4 E# O0 a, d. G

+ L% S: {' R; U- oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - ]3 R* z9 D" Z! |5 \, [

6 s8 ]6 Z1 U/ j人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) Z% _! O5 e5 I8 v6 [$ F1 G人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / F' B( ~; D: @: s! V# A
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. csuchen.de) u9 f7 G  W1 O' F" y6 O

- ?4 f. \/ p4 ]5 w9 r* v4 z) f( C"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."