[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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/ w* }8 `: w  B* [- M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: K9 B8 L; \; u1 |0 o9 u% H# O$ l

# @# ^+ z& Y: m- `根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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6 m$ ]# c1 N1 G' D- X* p研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de6 P+ z. v6 d' D! v% n

+ Y% n! K  k+ n% m) kWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) @' g1 ^. Q9 I7 n$ XPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 \8 @8 a% h- J& p2 U

9 B; k( ^" b& x& C0 U人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区: W9 i1 ]7 f" c: j  _7 i3 W/ ]. F

2 S% ?- Y4 n. r) c4 x2 ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区) k' m! M4 @$ N7 E5 f0 V. g) V

- Y4 Y4 s  {4 q  Gcsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( J( }  p! H, R0 m0 p" E

1 A8 v7 j8 x, v"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de! O+ I4 C% S/ M$ W9 B

2 a: m$ z* v9 ^7 t5 i% b' {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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2 _& u; `/ a% g# B6 W+ |; O4 T( _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 a+ [7 }4 o- K5 S9 M, L, bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区# [5 ~! Y5 I6 ?- F# R9 B

+ P- M8 v5 z: gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  X) N" u7 q4 @$ p, n% O. a"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 y# v9 k" y3 u9 L3 F

; {9 [) ]! U# z7 fcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."