[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。csuchen.de5 ^/ R: x4 f. B* i: c8 r

7 t/ I+ K, K1 N0 C' m人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 }  }1 h8 R& X

+ v8 [! N4 ~4 p5 j" P: `. G6 n人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& h- E8 r8 j' Z9 z2 `/ e# H. C研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& `; j9 k7 D, e  a/ e" [

$ ?; X. M& W9 S. ?) \& ]1 z% T+ EWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 }+ k( q; L: m

  B1 X4 I2 P0 y8 Z  VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. x$ D! r3 m7 z/ W- O; n7 g8 W1 m7 j人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区& j3 a. h% q$ J& h3 v; H' L

& ^- \* w4 m' L! A人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " h& U; r6 i8 C5 P) Q- ]  m

, M/ m/ ?: Z1 Dcsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * F. ], D2 r1 b5 J1 z% X; r( t4 {/ O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & K$ }, |. r0 O; ^% g  c5 k) x
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 k5 X5 q' Q8 T$ b* }& b9 TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " H' K% x# z1 X1 {' g

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  L# x4 }: c" g8 a+ y3 ?Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 |5 z" `3 w3 u! gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 m3 s/ R' D% l/ Q: {7 B, Y0 \8 W
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 n  u8 o# K3 h5 C: x
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * W! e7 b, V/ d( V& t% k( c1 G7 `
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 \* Q  U% R" F% ~

. L. i# b# \  g2 B5 Y( y, jcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."