[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区: s3 W# s; I9 [$ U1 p
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 R: D" C7 T$ z0 I
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 x( B2 R6 `: F5 e# [1 J2 a

9 k& k4 E* s1 n2 \" b根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: b2 ^9 c; X6 ^
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& ]& F+ I  }2 v9 _; u6 p  `csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de+ `! S+ |, L$ l6 z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : U; W1 z8 r# u) ?2 O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: X( s% S6 Y! Z2 L* pThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! Y# |2 d$ U, e/ {: |8 r8 |! V" D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de' j% u" v; g1 M

0 [1 c2 B7 M, A8 t"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." csuchen.de0 ~4 _5 ]' U$ d
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区3 ~9 W+ [8 T/ |5 p( B
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. + V0 z, H: V) k& W8 K
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4 ~9 Z1 _0 f8 @* \8 l/ vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. csuchen.de/ ~$ q4 D6 T" t2 y
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 ?/ w8 y. l( \, T. J! u* o

$ K* u9 y" j) }7 N) w0 _# kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 s) W: n! w9 g. o% _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, w. l! {8 V! m9 e4 h"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."