[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" x4 r) H& }/ B) ?) C) K据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ L0 g3 e; V! q' s人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" o/ S% ^* l: p' |- Zcsuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 I" s) }* q0 W

: N- m# I1 l$ O/ K( C; v( M研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ ~$ L: M- u5 q3 n
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 J* c# g) c* Q# r8 r" v' C/ V5 y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 D4 L: w$ g6 b/ J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 D% ^1 W: t4 h& {
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 `/ }- E( k6 {) Y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # [( w% b; C1 e, q! X7 D

; {% y8 s9 \0 f" L7 O"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' g$ S  y* X" Z# ?6 H2 D

% v: u' p/ i* B8 xUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 r4 z( O8 P; v9 ^

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0 _& n0 {9 }# |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # Y2 e" G# q! B1 m6 {; K
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + m6 j' F" A# n4 f  y# S

) p2 l$ @( ]" l( C& L$ RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( E7 z# d, S4 r' q$ X' M$ f4 n( yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区6 E8 n0 |$ v0 Q

3 X" ^. x8 {6 j1 w: z/ q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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1 i% w. m, ^% d: k% P( t! t/ n"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."