[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 ~8 G# n9 [7 \7 l7 ?- l  j$ K8 H3 F
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" g& L1 P# V5 W4 q' X1 K
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: j- J4 B: w/ v) e6 M. Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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7 K+ T/ m9 V) e0 yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' csuchen.de; V$ v) c4 p, D8 }6 q

, F9 y) y' E+ L0 aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % ~  ?9 q+ T- X9 b0 Q5 E( t4 r, N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& i7 w: m& ~7 W% A3 Y$ R人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) n. {: a: z# c% h( ^  h" [人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   U. K% p4 Y9 ?  h

+ l6 h9 b% G& A; `9 i$ N: H" r& }"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! s: W$ b  Q5 r3 G6 h8 ]
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( w0 j" C# H$ |/ f

3 u6 _9 \9 x, B  `csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de; Q: q1 k% V! h$ K; D5 ?
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , i! X3 R( w% m( E9 ~+ a

! R  s; e2 a/ k1 p- QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 ?. N! m. K( N  U5 T' Q% c' b"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."