[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) Z. [7 ?8 K7 y. Z; Kcsuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) b  W# H% ?& [

4 ~. o8 E& X6 K& y* W, P2 Q; m3 X研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 @7 O6 V8 \  F; ~

8 p3 Q+ m+ ?' A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 g" G. o" L& r8 w! u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# z. Z) V1 u4 B; S2 A
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区: G) v- o( i4 s+ H! p( D9 Z9 Q& Z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 o  z" g9 c9 g. T) k. `人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 Z! h3 \' f6 m. c人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 s4 e* s2 F; ]7 D( Q! S
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 \; |8 N3 f0 j: ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区* m8 L( |; Q" J3 a5 U: ]' I

& d5 N3 p' D# ~# }, D& O1 O* u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 z' c0 a' {8 M# ^& {- J" b0 \2 E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 a7 G' Q- M2 o$ r: T2 oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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; Q/ \; J4 r& l& C* nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 T8 [2 y+ F: U* e3 E+ K6 m# @' ]
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   r& y# t. e* I0 s

3 y( `2 O: h) l# j" F. dBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " T* i+ g8 l) L9 N* \$ ?6 Z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' z/ \5 r7 f9 ?7 u人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."