[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。csuchen.de; z- D2 D7 Q: r3 g! v$ i
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ n0 O# j7 `7 h. r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区- _7 c% b  j# `* V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : L% A% Z+ H4 U) N+ o4 F, }

+ h  T9 V* |& E6 Tcsuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* Q/ F8 m3 S) DPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * z( X) g1 h- x! I7 M

3 m' ], h* A2 q* r! ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 O' u4 X; ]: g: w
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . w1 e; |! E, m6 C# W. j
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! g7 i, A1 [9 {

( g$ o1 F6 g# |' {' V( \' t5 Q" }" xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# ]3 p, @2 b2 f& |7 T/ vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de8 t' F0 B% y$ f7 C1 b6 o

8 I; x: w! y8 j) g4 @6 {csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# T5 ^$ s# F; J& I: e"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."