[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ _1 z9 \; _! C  r4 i' X. ^

# G( B; V2 z% W+ a( S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。csuchen.de9 D. H& E$ R4 T9 T+ |

( _" g8 x; m3 Q* h- @研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ n, R- N. M1 n& A

2 X# r7 K  d2 r/ B+ r人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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+ R8 F9 J5 \) r: I' S研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区$ T7 u5 q' ]  h% M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区9 l4 v# K: M- I  j) V+ U% u0 D
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de2 Z( M. ]" ~; G% Z% n  L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 k" p, A5 u7 Z/ ^1 v) p+ \

; a9 f. \) W, e# q# i: @人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 b0 W. S( C$ v- o4 _, Y6 H
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区9 o* P* L; _/ V: P2 X6 y+ z1 S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 Y& p9 Y8 P5 U+ X9 O0 HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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6 X& I- r7 C- E8 a2 ^8 Mcsuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 M0 M+ i) q9 ?0 V# a- u! T9 `9 o. ["I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."