[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- o3 w1 \) X1 C7 m3 M/ y8 Y

2 b0 h, @* v/ J* f人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区* N: z5 Z' m5 P, b, a

8 R) n4 E6 {+ a- v1 l( Xcsuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% R! x1 |: y# K; A( {
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区( z) Y' \& j4 ^; z! o# I- ~6 D' K6 M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& H/ b/ A' n1 }' Y! THigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 J: E, g% L) s8 PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' }0 a8 W$ x1 X# t) _

) U0 J3 i( S" R4 Fcsuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 B" T! r! L0 u6 L. t3 h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& _5 t" E2 Z$ D9 N/ s/ |"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 A0 v2 H5 Z- w# B' ?
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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% |$ E4 N/ b  Y. \  o+ _' mUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de6 i8 T# o+ F- |3 C2 s" J8 u

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' n. b1 V& ?4 Z; z* F: b  {$ ~6 Q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: S. q9 m1 k2 {& kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , V6 g. G6 N7 f1 D6 v8 W0 m

3 c% ?! b2 B. K. p' M6 x! OBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 U) v: A* _" X$ \: B, |, RIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区, ^: i$ N% ?8 b0 _

: O( X1 {5 l; o' e5 b* _! q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区% l, B3 {) l& a& N" b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."