[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 W; g4 h8 K1 `9 }: I
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ Q3 c# B" Y6 K  z+ {' E0 S

$ o4 W4 M- u! v3 @, Z7 K; a$ r. [研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 ^% J, \9 ]) V

  x% n  q( [8 ^0 Y% J+ A6 Y人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, [5 C' }/ w3 Z! a) v6 U
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" x  S0 r" q/ q' S1 F6 H
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区. L) u4 T1 z$ w2 u; i4 k

5 A/ D0 v7 r, z4 m  p; Wcsuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 ?) u$ ^7 h: }6 n6 VPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 o  J3 h- X0 {* SBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ Q0 V- E7 u& [( m8 ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 K$ t) x1 E' @7 J0 D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 f* I& j8 |& e( N. e+ s2 E人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * h7 \$ ~) O1 G( s5 z9 Y+ M

! Q: G. k& Y$ r( \# |2 d- F6 i4 d) b) [人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 l; f" R# k* i" Z& \( E! b; l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( W) z" y; _! ~% r

$ B! D) P4 s  t) g; l9 o# x人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % _/ |& {' x6 F' x# Q) F
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区! u2 W# w2 P" T( ]6 Z+ \

9 X) U* J& H$ `5 s, `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ t9 L7 j! O) R+ G$ `But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 d9 V  F* L, Z

8 t7 q$ P, y; K: kcsuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区/ f. J' }& Z0 F7 E7 }8 x

& G" O- }9 z' z5 Q$ K( ?csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . l0 n9 t/ Q$ q) p* b; ?9 T

: P5 R! v2 v) Z4 p$ C" q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."