[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 `; V) O. h9 F' Y9 S. o$ _, U

2 \6 @" M& Q' _据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ Z" q( t+ _% q* O# G
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# S( U. Q! u- N0 n9 D( s
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 T' ]$ {1 t( M2 M9 \

- y( l4 t: n# ]! J" k, C8 z& |csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , c9 u' G) X6 L$ V! r8 I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. csuchen.de* u3 M5 }% R9 i/ C7 A
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' p& o$ z. j% Y- n4 a

) S- q" E3 `3 C( g+ L8 @9 B' BThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " d4 c7 K& u! y- E# O% \

4 t1 j( j, I3 O$ K6 m3 Dcsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( Q, g$ S: {- ?0 g2 c, u: ?0 d# ^8 J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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- k2 t0 [. p! f3 ?: ["We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de$ p) r+ T3 B0 b* B
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % j0 D$ ]5 q$ z8 J
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) S1 ^0 ~" ^' Q

, @. x- e" j8 Z: wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 Y( }" i- O: b- @
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 h# Y! v  C( k/ t! ]* ^1 D  g7 k

8 g* a# {; M9 q* {5 D& S! tcsuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . f+ s/ o( {' o7 o  U: a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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- i& i. q! z+ [8 M: _( ~"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."