[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 g; N; M; i/ m3 U9 u% u$ Q

/ g' h+ E  X. Z+ i( n& l据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ J9 v* F% b% q/ |+ Y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区( `5 Y( }3 `* W  i3 |

8 \2 m- M( ^& I根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。csuchen.de9 Z0 P& v1 J1 R6 K9 Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de8 a. {: K9 W- A% W4 v( }

3 V4 g# n6 W5 m* gWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: L/ ]  F3 I& i' [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 @7 g' b8 X: s+ x6 M% ~7 z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 c. l' F' {. T) ]2 zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 P: U+ p$ c  i9 V/ U& GThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." csuchen.de4 @: @! L% n! {; Y

2 ^: ?2 {+ B  _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de3 L+ F9 F* b3 l0 G9 s1 w( L; }4 r; R+ v
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ b+ m( W) ^& [% ^3 j

; E2 M1 ~" J2 N  \( ~人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 K0 k/ i- f) r7 T2 Z4 d

- A+ F& [; u' T5 JThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + [% M) J0 e! v2 ]1 {4 r

. F! C) N4 N. R, eBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 P7 Y. R$ C5 e3 R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 y. L5 B! x9 L9 X( P

- r; e% }4 R. r, N4 H0 Jcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."