[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# m  V) u4 |6 \( U# U9 `csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; D8 V+ @/ F$ b; A( y% }+ a

9 l( L9 I& A6 g0 ?9 j4 fcsuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 G$ Q) g3 E9 ~1 z: B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  g3 [5 b  |# R9 Y" @0 n9 ?' B

/ I* N5 K; j: {; U& O' m6 Z( e+ c, _2 CWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   j0 D9 F+ ~8 O  D& |

' O: A4 ?1 G% T# ]High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + G0 |* y" o: W' F, @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 S" ?8 t  k4 H; m  C

1 R2 F! Y+ Y. J6 o) z% V& ~7 |0 ]& s! QBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# h. D- a- ^1 R& W0 wcsuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. csuchen.de) z% Z. N% c' c! D6 S

8 V' z2 w  x) y- j" J1 WLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . Z" \8 i. g5 c. G* S4 j6 p% r7 [

% n2 T/ t- M7 p- P7 b"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区5 K  u1 h7 o& Y& C* W, Q

" A) d" G( Z1 Q! }! Z6 o& HUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de6 _# u/ q' E5 z$ g
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0 E0 l9 p$ R8 K. ?3 E# M人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" M% i* ?7 w2 `- _+ h" G! jThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 G$ E: Y0 d9 k/ Q4 F

, ^3 k  G5 U; E2 b1 vcsuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区. o* {, q/ D3 l& Q/ \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : g- X% `0 s2 o. \7 i) m: E; {/ Z

6 Z8 ~' @" O- U8 A; ]4 z0 Pcsuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."