[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) K- u, N/ A) K; n9 C9 N+ B据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。csuchen.de$ Z! u% L! |- s

8 J9 w+ t( n3 [5 _& A& X! W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区! f! l( K( I6 ]9 u/ A7 [4 D: s# g

, }& w7 b+ [& v) V* ecsuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ H' t6 j- I8 k- M' CPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . \- o) g* ~! T% g3 [

6 M; x" n. W, E! i  z1 Zcsuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 j* h, V: f0 g
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) E) Y. `7 V; o* W- E/ g: X0 |! i# e
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区% u, [, e) J% C8 z

/ Q* L4 K7 b# v) `: `3 }8 f1 i5 H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 v6 i- K. E& l% v6 z0 s& K; h/ E1 XUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de2 b/ z$ k& U4 d& R: I! ]' ?+ N1 h

7 H7 F( U$ N- S" ?: j! ?csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 c; M5 _# K5 K( ~
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6 |  c* n# D) P% V" j# V  vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) g) a7 w! y( \: h$ B

4 @+ Q  h& W* Q% W! h9 W4 @! Q" ^The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ L% U' |; ^' o6 }3 HThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . x1 l" `% ^* g+ U% F
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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1 Z* H$ V' u! y0 p" ~% lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; U8 ]8 V8 L$ g* I

$ l+ v) L0 U1 M# f) x( e, A"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."