[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! m, q6 Q1 f7 F0 l

  |+ z5 g: H# I9 z: ?研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 x8 q* E. ^. h& U$ Q: m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。csuchen.de& n. n* a" g+ v, t7 l. O. b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& }) @- Z% \/ [, C; vHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + w/ {1 g( `, h0 x& C/ ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区, D* q$ g* y. V- A- ]' i$ p; K9 o
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区+ L6 T# K8 q3 y* B, F0 x
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( d8 @% z5 R, M  o
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! g8 M7 B4 F% a  m5 w

+ T6 I" ^; `. L; c/ e( J& V"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, \  A* A: ]5 t9 h3 _% q2 c"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 m  O) |  ^9 b8 K, K  }! Z8 nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' P" P6 T) i4 `0 c; T" W- x: }' s% }Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   u# k3 c, f1 X: H
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 A9 U! O% @2 Q) I% pcsuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 F6 w) D. X& ?7 s% }

4 k' ^" x9 e" D; p  ^4 d" t4 nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 q) d0 P: H2 B  L
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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! |& X! P+ x% u' U+ d8 l3 a8 n, Vcsuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - m1 d+ p( a2 e8 M" {

& O0 Q) b& g. Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."