[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( a. ^& `! Y8 M

! g1 Z, \3 ^9 i& H5 i( ~据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% ^  |/ ?1 ?% l, _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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8 V' Y' o5 u+ K- o( ]& ]0 a4 b1 D+ `人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 @7 Z! c3 k  T
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) a) M( Y1 H1 ]# pcsuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 D6 ?. C" j" G; M# B$ {! [

+ t! M1 t) O7 ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   N$ X/ D; B9 Z6 G. y0 j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * C) A( _6 @% h( ]1 N/ J1 u! d, P

7 i! c- H$ Y9 ]* g: w) \" uLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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# P# k1 U/ [! B+ S3 J& C: P* ~"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 L' V$ e# r& P2 @

  t! d' n7 R) oUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % v' _0 A3 F! ]8 e

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  B8 v  ?1 M& z# XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ f: e+ N2 ^% [' s2 Y6 Q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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2 g5 b6 C9 z7 B2 l; Q5 v/ }csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! B; _8 W: Q2 v  Q: ?' S7 a* c) zIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , g; i2 M5 F7 c3 ^" c$ j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" R+ a# ?: U! V5 k"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."