[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 X; I& m! e* U( K" `$ {0 l. w+ M人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 \* F5 i/ H, O/ |4 t人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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+ c' {9 b& ^4 [% e5 R# B# r' zcsuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 q6 b% `% `+ [

# V" s. b0 [- D% j; ]Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * o5 c0 }: }) [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. csuchen.de# k0 v/ j: Q1 M' x4 Y
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ B6 }' w: o4 M5 ]3 Fcsuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- k- B: {  H0 v+ HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de5 V3 O  Z/ \) r* `7 T5 {4 P
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 @0 S; U6 y5 V+ K7 }& ?人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; _5 ^$ J$ }( y2 E2 D/ l7 USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; `* W& B5 X' J% g8 s' [) q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & X" y% U* i, f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de3 L; `+ R8 `2 O/ p1 ~+ R
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 t; O9 ]* f( W

( F: ~7 _4 K, f$ Y* @4 Q7 uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 G# n" m# P/ j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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4 @, ^1 K( i1 W5 \& p3 ^1 N人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."