[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' Y" W/ i) H  [人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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1 P; f6 R/ _; K, j& H; E根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区1 P# ~. o: x$ E6 R% Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de% }* d7 f+ m- S3 U* ?9 B# R

, E. D! ?1 ?, tWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # x" q6 B9 X; C3 s& p# @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 ~+ S1 [4 |# y0 GBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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& [6 H  G  a- K9 ?+ Q! cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& s- i! [0 G& J& Z" S; E9 @/ Ocsuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 \  h: Y9 V; G6 x4 l5 [5 @0 h
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - V! m" Q2 `& ?# u; h

5 J, T4 I9 h8 j5 }Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 n# j) B, D2 ]4 D) m  G9 `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 {/ w) K; [$ _/ m- U0 I

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' Y( r% Z& y' ]; v3 wAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 ]- X* P4 j5 ]5 u5 IThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ [8 p9 [" s1 L* HThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区9 H5 W. d% N" I- t: I) N* h

6 o5 w! R- E/ b# u+ d/ S& e7 X' f+ j人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."