[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ S0 N3 F( |( Z" U
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 P* d) _" S3 r, ^2 }

% F" o2 q- `7 _  b9 B. f* a研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区! t4 A! o8 ?% A" r& A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 `4 k& R6 r) T% u3 j0 l6 d

9 G) |( S" k. WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 x+ b* N) H7 M. [# n; z) ?$ n

3 P8 D; R, q4 v+ vHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 P) u/ `% S' p$ H* w' |0 iPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区- {+ |' B- p, C0 u' p
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : E; o1 h, y1 |0 c
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. @$ U/ j' r& j/ A8 jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 e  L9 E' i, j

; _% D. Z: P6 I& H; P3 I, F人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ q0 y# O1 l' C6 t2 G0 t& y人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 C  i4 C4 w. w9 t! E& o

5 R9 F1 ], e# mSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de. H5 x5 {3 h8 G# ?
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区7 k- _# a( H- c* m# M
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + ?/ _% q- i1 P/ [! [. l* ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * l, V8 Y( X8 q: H- ~  }5 H! C

4 l+ Y# }/ i1 ?! k0 O5 NBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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( T- w( b  K: r" n8 {, A"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( C/ A9 T4 e9 N

, N6 p# I4 w# y3 ^/ X$ x5 M人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."