[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 i, i9 X6 q2 S/ Q9 K0 y

! K7 P: [* L0 Y: t人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, |7 _; l$ v9 I# ~# ]' P6 O
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( [& ?, I6 y# H. j* G, @High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 y! L: ?' q) F# A4 F- R! Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & _& N& v1 ]8 ~4 D6 `" ^9 Y1 n
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! w+ Y. g6 I9 n. p2 i) p8 Q3 ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 P7 G# o0 a! a! W

% x, }* O6 C8 r! z9 r) ?0 cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # e8 i/ o2 t9 m$ A' x9 t" c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 ^2 E+ p5 q7 i9 ]7 `( \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! H# N! @; {# M# z% l

& i7 N" B7 H9 N. T  O/ Q5 ecsuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 Y6 W0 ?: ]8 }Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. csuchen.de6 m0 x$ @3 s4 z* i9 \
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% l: g! P& q- W/ F/ GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de5 ?' ~5 f, _" J- ~  s

; H, H6 k' Q# q5 ^: ]/ x- aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de0 V+ u6 `' }8 F! ]3 T& X# {# B

. \! M1 O$ F( P, [0 S( e. Q; G人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& ^, ]8 @2 T$ Pcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."