[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  h4 j3 z4 O+ `
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区, [0 g  V1 h6 \" s. x

8 \; `! Z7 J+ q# P3 ^$ E8 l4 i4 f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。csuchen.de: p. U- F8 k9 y4 Z$ J

6 h3 q% M- l2 X( Y) j& e根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& K% e4 X0 k5 e- ?% }
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) w) N) z1 [) j) tHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区$ F1 S5 ?) Z1 T( f& r3 p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ m# ~8 ^) {" \

  U, M' a. g& W; D/ `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区- b. E6 _; Q8 l4 j1 E/ v

* q2 R8 h, w" {: a/ ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区8 t2 |4 w) G: j0 h# ?$ c" u6 n
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 6 ?1 L8 ?. P' n: }" O1 ~( ?$ s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 |6 |9 F6 ?7 v+ ]9 M) I人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 w, O) ^, i6 P  Y8 z! B$ H. x% u

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % j. Y! e. `4 P3 B  B( u  n, N

* @- M6 E  \5 m' n0 u' e$ e2 M1 bcsuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: n- m6 G8 |( ~: Z# d, n, zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de1 u5 O) R- D# y  G
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."