[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% ?: Z7 R4 p! v! t. x4 J  c6 P6 Ucsuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" ~, O; k( E8 }# E0 B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。csuchen.de) V/ Q/ r) k7 e0 {7 \+ Y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ s0 ]* v8 |  E9 W

% [6 T: e  ]% i% W# T" M) ocsuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ a8 g1 S! l% Z* OWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区( a9 H% f! Z7 {4 h

4 k, ^2 O3 m5 }# hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( K0 n( ^# R9 H2 MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. U  K. W8 D3 l9 ~$ T8 h- NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , r4 }1 S& R  |7 s+ s6 o( R
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' G5 |5 n2 [" q6 x% S3 B1 o' T
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* P6 e2 P( h! R人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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# J% E  x3 X8 w4 H4 o人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 m- N) s7 v$ A8 \

% e# K# x" `1 @7 h. }. `% @The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de8 S- }8 e1 u* \

9 O6 U- m$ }" ]0 x/ t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区+ A* F  v( Z, d! O8 P

3 C3 a) x+ C4 q' \人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."