[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* U! U* J% r( a( `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 g/ \0 Z9 a9 W& B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ d2 R* u" s6 n0 T7 I
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- v; _2 [) Z2 v. U0 WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 ?. a: b* ?+ C5 h5 _, X$ H
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, @- b3 ~8 y, }" Q8 sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; d& `; K2 u: u! [8 N: p  b/ u9 |

' y) A: j% k- N, }* LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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* l3 o  N8 k9 O9 o3 T0 ?& ucsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区) K8 J& G; `% o

" L/ i! z% |) f+ T; n8 t"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * `0 w! |- d5 P. P
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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" D% g6 R$ Z0 u. v3 `人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de3 m3 H( z2 G% c7 H# _% ^' L

( |! N. C* z$ b: r人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 Q7 m# n. o2 f7 x/ {! R+ |

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' X/ @: a* n( N; SAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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$ w5 F8 ~7 V  }* kThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区, U) O: @2 o: H' D$ Q0 C

* B: p. ?; T" _1 s7 d0 }  d" `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. e/ Y) u* ~' Y! [4 A2 \2 R8 g  s+ d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 Z' n0 h: p: m) y7 `7 r) C# U

2 n7 `: L( C6 T" l, N9 R* r7 h"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."