[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. |8 H% I/ p) @3 N4 j
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。csuchen.de$ `: o& K! s. b4 \2 c; ^+ h

) {) U/ M& ]9 n# B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) ~+ a) Y1 R5 g3 I

  v) w/ k- h+ F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 X1 k, M$ @+ S3 Z( J
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( ~- n: R2 @& E( n6 U- NWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de, E" I  X- r3 b
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " n( S3 A9 D' F
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& Y0 s1 T$ R" I3 l人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 q' l* |  V  M% e/ H" L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 D0 b& |/ L7 C

' X; `( ^1 e  f' x1 G) aSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de5 Q5 f% j4 F$ z$ z, @4 M
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) a! `2 H& y5 f2 H. FAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 g% t" [" p3 u: a% t; M8 G

5 c8 O5 l6 p# U& CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   z! p# J5 ?8 J6 ~6 B0 K) r7 s# Y

( U! i3 D7 I+ `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + O6 Z0 |) S9 b; P7 G6 a0 J

: q+ [9 y" X7 f' O3 ecsuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de& U2 ~, K( i* C+ Y2 g0 g$ o2 f
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# U6 C8 \2 C- J) o人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 B1 l/ r8 W  V7 a: p9 x3 r2 f9 [

- @  m6 z8 H6 n0 R# M; l2 D& A0 hcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."