[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ v( k. W8 A' \8 S) t研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; G5 ?+ Y' j1 F" O$ I1 @人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" j5 I5 b- r. M. ^5 Q; s1 Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) v  L% H4 i8 \0 v' h" x/ MWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 ^  ?; V% F; U7 W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , D9 r+ f6 _* ~. m) a
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 `, B* m$ a% p, @& N人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". csuchen.de7 q% o- N/ I8 l& G' g9 o7 U) M( R* v

: T' A* D8 f% ^: u$ G9 X# q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 H. ?) W( F" |4 X3 D2 K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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& ]8 M9 }" Y. f- \9 h# ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, Z2 a3 ^2 x1 U' PAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & w  F$ D6 A( }

" G/ A- b; l5 l6 f0 e% A1 L0 FThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区* {" q, o  P; B$ l

* h, m. B2 v. Z6 q! N6 ]1 O& K( kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区# }- ]/ n0 |$ R: M7 t5 A. I8 Y

' a7 y- Q+ U9 t* o& j. Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区, z3 J/ ]( d7 c  P

* Q1 g1 P( U; H& Q# }csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."