[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  ]6 c* j2 J1 T' a3 {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区/ g  O9 V! ]  s2 S$ l) |' A. t

- ^% q! m5 b* Y; Y- O+ W  e研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- F  L- a$ s0 W# y  H4 W' L人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。csuchen.de% R7 T; `! F& z" h, T9 H! h
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# ^' z2 `1 L& Z) J
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' csuchen.de. A* m* v0 S" R3 r2 ~) \, r5 J3 \

  K; }4 x7 Q$ oHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 s5 a, L' G! \* D: ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * M( C" I$ @0 n: r" ]8 A6 Z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) [! V2 n/ i" |2 V. Lcsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ s; |' m9 {1 m" v

9 }1 Q- z& i2 o, j' W"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + d6 J* n4 {: L' X

9 j+ m! W1 {2 h8 {% ZUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; L8 r, ^1 C+ V8 p

6 N2 E8 }# e' w3 NSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, n3 H# }4 l5 o: i0 ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 a1 j2 ^9 |# F9 N& q3 Q2 V/ L人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; I6 U% q/ b" K: D1 I1 |

( M' L! v5 `6 j"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."