[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 T5 k! I/ I$ L4 U4 M人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% L) J! `' q" @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" }& M0 K* _7 x
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区& O4 C/ F' L& G

) a$ o% {7 U: |0 Scsuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区; R3 j4 j# a6 q9 Q0 Y9 q  U0 @& v

' u  E  \) D  s! l) @- M) y3 t  gWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! H& u; j. _& N* S9 ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 h! v# `6 L/ b1 CBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( Q  V8 T; s! h7 }( v人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区+ @$ M  N7 f+ P- ~% @5 ?

- B, z) D% C5 v& C' Scsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 I0 H9 p8 O' E% K2 ^- }& \4 Y

. t8 V5 y; S, y* f0 @. l( I9 ~人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : B+ k: S; Y- l1 M- B) q+ b

' @3 e* Y! v/ V7 y+ L6 k' Scsuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de( i  Q0 D6 e4 b# l0 R4 O: Z$ _

1 L( i( P; E6 v2 L2 \+ n6 ~: |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) u) E* ~  [6 e1 P- _( Q" M. @9 e. wAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. csuchen.de7 U4 ]% S# M: ~6 [( M7 i: e( I
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de* Z5 I+ F; y# a4 E

! `2 \7 d* {5 [$ E$ p5 }: f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! ?% \) Z+ f/ v0 o" J" i/ j7 R$ [csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."