[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 B: n  r2 b5 }- P

4 t& ^( w& \: @, A* F人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 c2 u8 S; H7 y( M/ G( n" t& M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% _' w- d1 C: n根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" K7 p, s( p3 b* ]- d: B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% D9 j# }! D0 k3 |# K" Wcsuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 K" R/ V  ^* [, ~* B# F4 ?5 g3 Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 O' k  T4 w: a$ ^+ a

0 _- K! K, @5 ]  y/ p- U0 R; e人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区; @9 a! ?( N) ]  w; {1 w7 W% [

' p3 V# X+ x8 G) r' a1 E2 }( tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. csuchen.de" W. k. O1 o. h$ {3 @

' M  J1 ^) x. D7 }- h% ^) v) K6 T人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' \4 S* _& E7 G+ P% I

( L8 ^3 s; I# A) f4 r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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# p- e9 ^3 x; Hcsuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & [. [( \3 |9 f& R

6 a( K% C0 H' ?8 u( WUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 B% r! A. I, @/ `& p: z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' V5 Q8 A+ C( ~* l8 D* V0 z: M8 c

* U2 r# n  \5 k) `* o# V5 v人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de. i' u: W6 p6 T; V

  c5 Z4 C/ W, y) t+ Z, e" t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区' l; A- `8 @% a! J( a4 B
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."