[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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0 {! s9 _% w/ X1 `, ]csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 y$ t2 [; l) V) G; I# V

6 N  h$ n: b2 S4 B5 l' \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* h# U" Q. ^1 R+ X( S0 M" l( }

  _7 {% b/ j' T6 O: ?人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de/ d8 k* H* _$ V3 G2 C4 b
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 S" p5 m; ^6 N7 a0 X, O9 m9 ]) HHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区* R$ h8 z; u  j. Y9 f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 n7 N% d% e. Y2 _( k1 n- E人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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& s% \3 ~) y! N5 L0 e* f' X( F人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ P* r- i3 R6 r: l

2 F0 @3 c9 j7 P- |* P) v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 E4 X4 }1 H; [+ m6 z$ M

1 w7 Z# i6 X% C8 z2 A$ K9 TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. P; }- }+ L; P% sSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. csuchen.de8 r$ K, t; ?9 n2 w, v  `

( d# s" J# J$ Z. gThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区, F: {" ~6 t( P3 N" ?* t& {& D1 I

5 q& k( T' _5 O8 j7 Q: cBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 J+ x. h# n) Q8 |7 {0 Bcsuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."