[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; o, |  n( `& F1 o; p

  u+ H% J# f4 v4 l3 Z  P3 k, q7 ^csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, K5 @" F3 y( T# w5 x
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。csuchen.de" n! \2 l+ `+ j  F

5 F; P$ l. n* t8 P, Z6 @/ |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& o4 Z! s9 W4 i" l# p0 K! s研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 Y+ P  ]" y4 Y/ ~- E9 z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区! n; J$ Z1 s- K) h3 P
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de: k8 w; L) C0 [, R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & _# e$ }$ P& j

( ^2 ?. [" j* K- x0 M* g4 RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. csuchen.de' S1 M2 R, \" h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! Q9 r; H# J( u  f! d  y

0 ]  w1 r3 R) ]7 ?. t& OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 r3 [* M& b4 u, I& Tcsuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de8 o! Q$ A; o7 Q9 ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) i0 G( j' g4 I. d9 n4 [9 B8 O

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   B2 D, [% F( x/ p7 n

. t3 O; N$ |& E7 j7 Fcsuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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) J$ |9 y" t8 n6 FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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* }1 |% }" E" [2 S! aBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de2 `' e) g) c& W% q9 t5 s9 {, F. ?9 T

2 @4 I# ]4 t4 I4 V$ }* rIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de/ n1 h' Z" J- g4 @  J. ^

  C+ m) z+ _& y- d8 ["I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. csuchen.de  Q+ z' w( T5 u$ A# `

: a9 x) ?, c6 g3 B9 r* O7 r, q; M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."