[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ i$ ~2 ^0 B2 J) \: ]
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区* m2 D! r5 l  V' Y/ |0 f

/ f9 e+ }  l% }  R* H, R! d, Ycsuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ z: e* K% |6 y) B1 f8 ?

( k: P9 L+ p' R  d人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% V# Z& G/ c( ]

/ t. F4 k1 I* T( @( t人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% x2 p( y0 z9 u* |: E( Ycsuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区! @1 A- K7 e: f, {6 j+ b

9 J0 J1 r7 e) z) Q8 ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 t. Z  |3 V/ p0 J
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! h# F# U  Q% _+ [. }3 _7 }人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de7 m0 z/ l. q. O* F4 i6 f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 B- w* x4 n3 b  Y

2 Q$ Y8 f# a2 N) A0 J. o* e' Fcsuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ n8 G: t$ M* L  X4 Acsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de4 j  C  J1 K, T) e2 }4 N

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$ Z6 {; W& e' qAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! ?% \. c7 F4 P! g3 |6 D; r* l+ d. qcsuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! `' _; I8 k- A" S2 A" fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区! J* ?! N2 p5 N5 \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 l6 @4 Y' w: H7 z* O) U0 k"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."