[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. W5 y7 p$ V& A! `/ {! K据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 g& ^; x5 u+ R* w6 k

$ d1 n7 |+ n7 u! ~" a6 G+ P' D5 uWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, ^' l, A# b' OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( G- w. }; `8 ]Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 K* T/ n. V" O; P/ a+ J# bBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区+ z0 H" K% k* a; A

: X) \$ a6 I+ ?* L9 ?4 |% c"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " ^3 c% x9 ^7 X. k

5 C( V  k9 R' L2 E$ E* O* [/ K"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 p9 \0 p  ]$ h8 s4 Y2 c7 K$ @人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区3 [4 K  b* u% V# x- p4 g( `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) t5 Y% W, v0 e1 \* U0 a人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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) U, D  X& d( E& \( ^人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 y% I% Q6 {, w9 {; K8 G4 ]: r
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de* Q, l' k* A/ @+ L; V6 f7 u

, }5 e& ]* U$ M( ^( \5 z; lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 E4 W5 e* ?/ s* d, a3 T

  f7 D/ K# i: Z  q9 _' s9 |- ~"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."