[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区4 @9 ^* q9 r, y( ?! E; u1 w8 T0 x

( [+ i/ S# _+ Q# X8 y  k6 h0 c) }据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 N0 n' m$ F4 s$ }- c$ F
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 t& b: p! p7 Y9 [! ^" h4 [" J
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区4 \( @: h7 k8 d" ^+ M9 y6 q% K% `

6 I5 g- d* n. d1 P1 H1 d1 \& U人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& d5 ?2 q8 ]  J  _9 P! Q) h9 aPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区1 V$ r* v6 {$ P0 W1 p  f( N- D; x
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. csuchen.de3 }$ q! L% S, X3 t$ n8 Q. Z# x

2 X# V: d/ V$ {2 `  K% ]  b1 GThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区, f" ]# X; _. i9 [/ u9 X
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de% d9 r/ _! w4 [7 y5 {

9 k( |- I" @( b6 ~8 w$ {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % a4 A' t! [1 |, s, T1 Y3 e2 W
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区% l# J* ^7 g8 _5 h( Y

' X$ S, F* K! z: |  [csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 k3 a; m  Q' u: |6 a: B! g  ^* X; H

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; e5 f& i9 {$ uAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # s% @, G' K. m+ C
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& ~: e% I" t0 i2 N" o3 w8 OThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( e' _& I. c+ X# J9 uBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区, v3 U+ E  E' o% w

# C& P: z  G  g; AIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de: y1 r$ x! H+ D0 k+ g% o6 K! _6 x
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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- I3 v2 C4 t( m) M; I; l' @人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."