[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 S( F9 Y% f( t$ [& t2 m

8 [+ h( F9 g9 Q' e$ o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 G0 u0 U$ h. x4 ~5 j( _2 r8 E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* X$ ~& J! a! Y) ^4 v4 G人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. l$ W( G  T4 q; A- D1 E2 {1 s" X$ dcsuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 G/ M0 _& I6 Y7 V  ?% ?+ ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ; H. O4 P7 H# `1 u" ~
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - \% ^- u, @+ h) ^( ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & p8 m  s; k* @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 w% B, E. d! ^3 M
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# S; L8 C2 z: @. m! z9 Y. B7 h5 oUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区/ R4 ^( f3 \, r+ J# J9 q1 _) w

4 k( `9 I+ a" h) g/ l3 USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de* F, J) s2 X4 m; X/ p' B4 |
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$ X4 \; D+ l: H3 g# S) v7 z  WAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 C. P0 N. e4 YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de% a0 T# B& U. o- d

. y% o# v* p) C$ H: [csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."