[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区! m3 D+ E$ H0 H; c  b

2 E) H6 R" D8 x- H8 z7 t- m% E7 l人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' U: a& I; k, W1 U8 j8 P& o

( b6 e7 x: k5 |$ ~; Vcsuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ \3 `  x* T9 y# k1 a! @& q人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区. p1 {6 M7 z+ L$ G5 ]* R8 t5 i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : x# d, U; |  z- W/ y
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ f- W( s- K* u1 }9 _The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区9 ~: ?  X& K$ P# p+ `/ ^
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% g5 `+ h. E7 S8 Q+ X' l( p"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de$ O/ h6 @5 y  H

6 C& v# o! Y& }; L, h人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, ]4 S/ w& K2 f# D0 I; e, L6 RSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. csuchen.de+ ?. F# j0 F  ~

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " Y( t4 m) g% K2 T# |& w; O8 O! y+ ~

/ C& B5 k8 ]0 ?# ]& p' ZThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 n& ^4 E& y. S2 ?* N1 m8 k/ O6 V
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 T- k9 R4 t' ?2 @4 T# h0 Y. wBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * y# S" |& }0 P! s8 A, |$ k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 R) A& H) u4 k+ }" P8 t  c- [0 T
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."