[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# g8 ?8 g( v  L; j/ ]; M8 T: D
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ m! c. R3 a: N3 c  r& k+ M

! Q, f9 z. y1 v* a研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 }# v$ e5 a7 v* v" E% m
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 D% s, T% l3 D! B+ l' R

7 Q) y# F( a& n& A/ ]# s研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 u) T0 }- O  E1 H4 k, r: t

$ v/ |, q+ \4 w: vWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' % i  z) Q" b0 y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 K7 a/ i3 y8 i" @! M0 [Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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  a% H3 K9 @6 {" F  k5 UBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. csuchen.de$ g1 C4 X1 K& h4 R3 ^9 P# q$ {
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! L; t4 ^( `3 M/ Z0 l* p% i0 N2 B

# H* W- g" H' I, L4 VLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". csuchen.de( U3 }4 p; ]1 g8 v% i! M
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 _: H+ f  a. J+ C
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区5 _2 |2 v5 y& y, K

* M9 \. e& z! Y, D/ RUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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* y" T/ L4 w( CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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  N* m' z6 B  c  u$ [+ s6 M- N人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 n9 N# G+ H( L6 O. _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de; R' C+ `- g8 ]2 k4 @( R( B
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de9 b6 Q4 w% }% D: H" e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# g; q0 z$ o' u3 R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" {1 l  _: b/ S3 Tcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."