[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: E( o/ ?7 P) z7 k

$ Z, Q/ ^9 P7 w  E- G5 ~5 ?4 h* a人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, x! O+ ^. x% e- @+ w
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 [' N$ b0 f0 N2 \& E& b8 N' i/ L

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' W# {1 S+ g$ Y' n( Q6 GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 D& Q' q/ [- ?8 v" K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 m' ?: t( Q  u/ L0 _- v- X8 L
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区" H) O* x7 I: V: q. G7 X: U( a

$ u/ ~6 w0 L3 X; r* x) l"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . E& l: R" H) q0 z7 ], M5 v
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 j1 T/ B( k! V4 l/ o; Q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( G1 |1 q4 Z- t
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( j8 u4 ^* n: R8 q$ V  g  x

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1 C6 _% A  O; M1 i6 d) ^1 xcsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区1 M. I: t8 q8 v' k3 s6 c" W( M

/ g+ z( u+ f! i- ?. E5 B% \The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + n: x) [9 W' Q% J& |/ g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de6 t. S+ P: q6 q* h
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , Z8 I: H) M3 L% T

# z4 t0 X5 S( Z7 ~+ B% `. E( Dcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."