[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# e! z3 I9 m- o8 k; G, M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* g6 C7 W! R) C, @" Ncsuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 Y( o% K2 Y( B) I2 y. w

1 |/ Y: G  ?6 A3 }. m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ s4 b. f: d9 \( [& i) ^( u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( ?1 @7 G/ u( E8 f: x6 VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de( [+ a; d; R+ u( ~% u7 M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. csuchen.de2 s$ w& n$ l9 x) v, [
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ i) ]: B3 h4 `( y+ u' b

7 M& F- e( ]0 \+ F1 {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区0 R$ s" L% f- @: w9 Z0 C, H" X- ?$ @

8 Y$ E$ ^: w( ~# Y* {5 Z人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 s  z1 T, |3 M9 S2 W) L! |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / p  x* d! Q4 v! G* O

8 p3 H3 S$ O/ f人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. csuchen.de* Z. w$ Y9 `* t" P6 n/ T
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, d5 a2 @5 y1 _5 k  J" T7 zIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( Q/ `1 B, x4 _: t5 V$ h
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."