[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' f0 M/ M! G9 M; Z! m

9 E/ `9 n* _" u  [据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区: D0 p8 _+ h# Y, @0 f7 V  q
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; }2 F( U6 ]+ s% N5 x

& S1 A( h  C% N1 ?! }. N9 }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# k1 W( y2 v7 x
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 k( _/ N/ g$ B0 D) VWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区. l6 |/ q2 ^- u% m; w8 \4 l/ f7 h

- x- q: O4 D7 e0 Q: THigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' m. I3 F9 U2 ^' Z2 A- E; ]Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区5 l$ E: r5 @+ v( W

! P7 c# A/ s# @; u0 i' z人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; ?1 L, h# N4 u
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 |/ ]; o3 ^* ?
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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# h' N5 y7 l& O" o; F6 }6 ?5 ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 Z9 _/ ]$ a: R. t* pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de/ Q. I9 V& C2 T% H3 r
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. csuchen.de8 o% L8 E9 c4 N% d! r# v

5 ~. a/ j3 D9 h, V, fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 {- K# v$ `" oIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   h3 n) x" q2 [/ l* B

% \4 A6 L( P! O$ e! e' V"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* Y4 r; k6 O1 p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."