[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! X. @* F/ `, l/ Z) z$ K

! K2 D6 F% ?( F, i/ U- {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ r" }; u5 v8 b3 s/ W" L4 j研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& d, {, a6 ?5 |" z  P
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # Y+ `" w: S" h* B* ?7 x, u1 X  J. ^
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; p8 s3 [; o3 aPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 K6 E; {4 t% ^4 J1 f. d
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# Y! S7 q% Q  G; _) ccsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ m8 T" ]/ ?" l! P# |/ C1 d  O4 y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' m1 c. E) d5 z  n
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 ?2 J! X: s3 a; b1 G3 O4 ^  H

+ H% ]7 H3 L2 w: mUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   _# n* i1 ^2 V

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1 ^$ m' F6 H& }6 |/ C& L& sAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 d7 e, v: j0 g

& C5 M% t9 _0 G* M& N$ hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 X. w( j; ~; G5 q0 h# p- H1 B" [

# R* c7 U) }! f1 t$ ^Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."