[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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+ X: R, ]7 g" [& K, d人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de$ w) s3 R5 j5 w9 u0 A9 S: O- Z$ v5 s8 R
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' , g& y% w1 h- H& f, U7 X8 u' R4 ^

- U6 O$ Q5 s; _5 H4 FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 \$ }- x* F* e! m2 ]8 m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # n$ `3 t# u" X5 [
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ c/ c! [7 N) J+ w% K& u% ]

* e6 ]# u; c( p" O6 K% J" {人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区7 x9 g" @- r0 z1 N9 P7 T

7 M# _% {. }& E% R6 D. V% I9 Q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - z( o7 R* v" j6 w: r( c2 [9 D

2 Q) {9 P# S/ p/ Z1 m; L% Scsuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 O* s8 b9 B9 Y/ l0 U( dcsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / C2 k  d$ N5 x. `9 Y3 D
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  Y6 e* [: C" G# I* Ncsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区! `& ?3 D5 m2 W- M7 ~4 q

1 I- z* g) M8 l) ~0 [The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de8 m$ o( J' b% {% E! B' Q. z

8 v& G  B, S+ ?3 v3 e! t5 ?8 R人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 v( C( T* K' x  GIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de2 S5 G8 P& n- B) y, _

% }3 Y3 e1 m0 ]人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : x4 x4 S: L3 @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."