[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区3 j. w' c8 S/ P) E& Y" V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) H2 \& i0 ^1 _& _

' \/ ^/ k* F! W) n$ _研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' z' w* m# ^/ g9 U7 V) ?" k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区6 X; m) W$ r, m# F2 H: ^" V

0 H* S, a- s, a0 Vcsuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* a8 F1 S9 r6 L1 `- h* E8 @

' y/ J2 R. [( WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 Q% _0 S3 K" hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 \$ u+ C4 `6 P* p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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: ~; f. H+ }1 m6 _' e: kBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 Q8 p& f- ]- W) f: }"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 B  h& _7 m) }: j7 x: ^

( a2 S. @% d# D- X$ ?csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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4 k( @1 B8 d+ E" QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 H& l& `8 p. }' H2 p5 [) @$ |  `

- P1 u9 ?/ a0 m1 MSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( v# V; M. ~# W8 o' \
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' D2 [. h  S- u: J) S( g1 ocsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ `) b# q/ W; m$ n' M6 i/ e* j+ ccsuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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0 u, ]# A$ @, A# v! o$ }csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ H2 e: I( N) O+ M3 f4 A, B/ C: n

, f  C7 G- ^" T人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区5 ^1 p* D9 o9 @* Y% f/ m1 d" k

9 a' g8 T# ^& `人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."