[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" T" T" b1 h4 D9 F4 t人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* x$ n+ x& s- q人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ b+ {2 n+ Z: f/ l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区# |# W* G! @! ~. c
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de+ K* f+ g3 r7 K) O9 o

" a9 u4 Q+ N/ G9 |* g人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' $ x: |! n+ V( G: n* ^8 J( s* w2 j

5 v& e! J! E: E% @( s" w0 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. y+ s0 [8 r6 h: C) J5 N- ?6 Dcsuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 b$ S9 }6 w: L3 {& p

0 Y8 G. L5 J2 }1 aBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 k3 h1 b# ^+ d; M$ \0 T- e$ g+ o
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ A5 _7 ~+ M2 E% |( CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区" u8 g9 s" l: `+ c0 {: a2 H( c! _

5 p% Y  A; u4 b0 _5 N! s人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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- v5 f" y: h8 ^+ _, w! b. |% c+ }csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 y$ V; x. H9 l# C$ L

4 w5 m) g/ Q8 [& S3 E& Pcsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 R/ L, C- p( Q/ \* ?

( u( Z: c+ G' `0 ]* [8 Scsuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & [$ H2 ?% L% B" K% z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 M- m; K/ l% ~" i' s, c' E2 {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   G8 o" N6 D( o" k3 b/ A3 Q( L

1 v6 {/ K1 i! @! A5 _6 n6 w"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, C4 g/ {) f) e; Xcsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."