[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 F$ f6 v2 E# l
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ X. @! K* D: G3 k. }0 {/ }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区: D# s) _' r4 s% r  @; ~1 f% O
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区; j8 U# U" N% ^; u3 e  \9 y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% v- V5 d! L& x* K7 }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) u9 [# Y- S2 q- ^
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " H. H" x7 g! x# R* s, ^9 U

1 Z9 ]( @  j- |5 F, ^! S8 r, A: hcsuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 Y& z- P; C% D, z! e! [9 {0 J2 w% z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 s" F5 I, c; l/ Y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区+ W5 i& f# K  W$ e  j" g/ |. q

8 f4 E4 X# P+ y' ~1 e: m- l: WUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 `8 h- q( {+ U

9 G5 w# L1 k  I6 L( h. o" GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 W; T& G7 n' |1 ^: q5 [/ U
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; l$ x) V, _6 y; v/ f/ o! J0 V) Z* S

: b4 n( A( I3 B4 d) I; b7 UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& I* k4 b2 n4 R9 _8 n8 q) L0 a人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区7 D# D8 s, n/ i- O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."