[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* i1 ^4 M; g& E$ c. ]# ]$ Y
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区! _  x- G( ?5 r  x: c
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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# ^; q  X5 ]; ~& v7 q9 }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 x6 n$ ^$ J+ W/ i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 m9 m) x6 o  c$ N0 z- o( j/ r
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区  C  v: N+ L8 x3 }
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de1 L% W. g! Y( `( W) s: q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' L4 n1 G% S1 k% a6 Q! t2 H
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 v+ I- T/ f  S; }$ a6 w2 g
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) `* R0 ?, s' {+ s  qLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . G4 D. x. \' H) p

& V/ l, F/ ^) G9 n+ ?csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. csuchen.de7 t& y. A0 P  ?' f- l
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 ^, \* d. S) V  }; q) N( ^: K

# u/ e% a- N7 r7 k人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # [2 k  l; V) \+ L7 S$ V* t
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. t3 Y5 g) [( c6 g( gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & z- R+ M, Y3 W% K/ C) P) C; u
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . l7 Y) O+ ]' x& C

& q0 x0 l0 x! G3 |) PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! |- ?0 L7 F& t: P, t/ u. ^

- ~2 d) O4 [6 f) Y2 K! @7 p( k+ YIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区4 _2 d9 D4 a/ Y, u4 T% [" j2 E7 D) `+ U

8 I" q  l/ R( f$ q. J0 f5 s人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. csuchen.de; L/ a& e6 b8 u
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."