[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。  K# a/ a2 G, K" x
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% s2 A  S* m, P4 K6 m! h

5 e! Q' y: H+ pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区; W, z9 E- U/ X- }) ^3 D, W, @

6 Q, N0 z  p) ]' M+ BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& L0 r5 k0 W; \1 m" yPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 H1 O( ?% s2 ]9 Z3 ]4 @6 w' K
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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6 {5 ]3 n; K% ^3 M" qcsuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 |  j' E! J; O9 G: X& s  L& LLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % O( Q" F5 y& }- q) i* {  F' |. Z& H
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 6 `8 K1 w; J9 P5 l3 e, [5 H9 K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 V7 o- c3 h+ @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区" b; \- L* a$ \, F

) o# W+ ]% [. ~" Q, l! Ocsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + t, Z7 o) x% z4 m! B$ I6 d
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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/ s4 [. Z; P" B% ]# ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 i7 L0 d) G/ Z" M. ], ^But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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1 R0 C: r* H' y; A+ O人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& _/ n9 v5 Q3 C. Q! v. B9 F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."