[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。csuchen.de% K8 g1 N3 g8 I: G8 j# E
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 j6 c0 z1 p4 A2 ~" B- X/ v

3 H+ ^$ n" ?! C. y9 O/ d" WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 _( u% J& P' M2 Y# uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; [  U+ T% ^3 W7 L* N8 B3 N人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 ~' X# @* l# N: T+ \7 U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' w$ b; ^$ m6 H9 R$ a! F( I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区6 ?3 ?5 N0 T8 `% c$ O. q

2 v5 _2 K& o7 K' O7 X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . \+ J' [2 i  A8 K* c. O  R* ~  o

9 @. T9 w- R2 _8 }; l人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 H  x2 {  h6 x6 |  |人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 _! E3 a; q% v+ s; wcsuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ X0 {6 @2 K( L" pcsuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 ]& @' B3 c9 W1 g) m
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."