[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。csuchen.de- W7 s, V5 j# c% G5 a
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区$ o" u8 s7 Z1 W( A. {- u5 w
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。csuchen.de+ [+ j3 }/ {. `1 b, u. n6 O$ l

# ?1 u, G( C9 ]9 h人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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" o& X2 B7 V/ T( q! H* V- U研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区. e2 |. I# r* n

% x/ y6 k4 k6 FWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' % S, i- F( ~! H: W# I! b, P& o& K

# [; c, L( }4 [2 W) d: M9 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 c$ b6 ~2 V" ^& i: Y5 P9 ]+ J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区% G: U, S1 x( A$ u

- J  ]( ]! G" I7 Q' ?& j; eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ [2 r" s8 {$ e( v; y人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ; ]- c/ Z. ^+ T

, Q- G7 P4 q3 c% u# `' vLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; e0 k+ L% Q6 i& M1 u3 X% Z2 h* Y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. A/ R$ R# h) ^/ B9 [Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ Q5 r4 N* T. h8 w2 ]" KSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . H" O2 ^9 U. j  ]) N1 ?
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" {3 K5 e& v* _5 C5 V1 H" V) u2 fcsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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* z8 r( j$ A2 u2 k8 k% A+ t# `' D3 Q2 }csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* o8 y, ]6 k1 [  w# O3 fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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* F5 O6 m3 C+ Q. V人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' e$ ^1 v3 n; l. A
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   z* }! f7 G3 U! I

$ k  A/ T: \$ V8 `2 d" A7 f人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. csuchen.de! A1 Y2 b- M2 q9 m

5 L9 V% A1 @' H4 M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."