[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( {9 c4 K1 X7 N9 _& n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区7 |0 Z" U/ i/ E& c

$ J* k! x# Q, `. f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" P' H9 [6 ]5 }& S4 F

1 a# w6 ?' q! l, `3 n+ x6 h1 j& W研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。csuchen.de% I2 G" c. ]9 y3 {5 g7 V& T

' x) _1 M; U& Z) M# k! W: E人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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  }8 C5 m5 @) n4 s9 l) jHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 e$ b: Z: j) i% K) b7 a" {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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0 i+ o) i- W3 ?csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # V2 ~) v9 {4 T0 q; n! e

6 P* J- a: l1 i+ O' VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& H( E. n. {: ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 k( W- t! U) z4 Q% A
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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+ s" j9 y, `% q' q- gAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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$ ^" j/ Q  l) B0 W4 lThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 q  f* w4 p- \. l5 }

4 H+ x! D/ L+ O5 @# ^# x$ O$ TThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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  C. \) l4 Y2 r4 f7 g; ~csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区3 q3 b! o) B1 u8 {7 H9 v* G

' f" M" U; M: aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 c0 w' [  p! v2 X8 x( b

# b+ B: N" q8 \5 Q" a- f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区& d+ s, q% A6 \4 r: a

& a* d) O$ z0 K" \! O" d"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."