[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 `9 n6 V& b: h3 [9 p$ G: h据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; V4 w) x7 e: {/ J: c+ P
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。csuchen.de1 n( i  F. w6 v, M- }: W) ^5 |

) d, w6 ^1 U) |5 S5 C$ I, M+ }人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( v' b% w  [& a% c4 |

+ J, G: |5 Z7 m* w* s人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( U! m+ O. Q0 F/ F; e

2 J' M* ?, ^9 U. Y/ S$ d$ vHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ x' P/ z  z- R% v- e人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 G( i4 G# ?) v" bcsuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 y/ _6 D8 O5 E5 z* P

5 w2 {" Z" ~. y$ ?% D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 S0 |, Q' H/ j"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de" e" I" m6 }  B

. i& R# N1 V/ p: A4 A) U. Bcsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区" U7 f8 X& \& ~8 [) x

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) {, z' ]0 K5 ~% ]  L. G, ^Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 @! Y  ~8 K9 m人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   _, F9 A5 j$ A, P! g
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' a. V5 a, Z, j: Y$ P- i1 ~5 N; j- X5 b人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."