[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。csuchen.de/ s. L% r( V6 i) w' L

9 x- G1 H5 O; `/ i% M6 acsuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区  R9 r( D5 {+ l. a* B+ F
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 T- o  E( E7 a. z; Z* ocsuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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/ _2 _5 H) V& G3 Z+ U( Kcsuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; u" y6 {- o& m: l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 T0 ^0 Y! }4 `% TBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 Z. n, ]  T5 [9 |' ^人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! s4 _- r# p$ u

4 F3 a6 w+ h% O' \6 f1 n& ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". csuchen.de* y: @9 p) p# k3 Q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) T  j7 }% {9 G2 s

8 H0 M/ n/ d% k$ C6 ~1 n人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 I4 S0 u1 ]' @  G% l8 _

4 x* C, K2 j$ ~3 LUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 W& G! ~# k, V) D" H3 f8 {" N! {Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 d2 o! K7 H  x

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; G% \  j  V. \& ocsuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, N+ t3 |! m7 T& DThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 H2 J2 Z, j4 h) r7 H

: B. z+ X  v' M8 Y, F' ]人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; i7 ~5 T0 r& M4 m7 Q

4 F- [: K. v% L; e( yBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ B4 q2 Y- ?% f% G& ~Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 ?6 }' ?7 T+ Z: @
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! m6 Y% ^0 P4 o, G7 y% y9 i5 c& A! U; F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."