[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 j* T3 I; I3 ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 t! j1 s: p) k* k
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 `1 Q4 d, F) B. @

. Z" w3 w& a$ C4 _- b0 r$ \csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 _6 L2 k4 j. ?0 d
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 O# [- l; q. q% s* u( _Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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! C! r+ v7 Z' [" o$ ~: v/ u. D人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 K. ]) k) Q( C+ I$ uThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区  g- P$ e4 |9 K) W
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . t! Y' W! B' f6 N* Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 m" c" b' e+ v+ w5 v) d5 G; aSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. : W! a6 m8 J; s- n$ E; ]

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 j, d3 U( }. A& J, d5 O. @The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. csuchen.de# N2 E5 [* z5 p% p. J6 E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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5 b6 g% h+ E" Y/ z5 @+ j( ZIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' m, E( B5 i$ |5 z: ^- k  @

+ L& j9 e* V1 F1 T7 G' r+ y, s" `- Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."