[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 \( `0 p2 U: B4 b' i
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 c& l+ s  w. y' N+ A/ E

7 K  C  A* Z) i( C% `9 T7 m7 p5 l研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. I4 C3 m, h8 E8 R人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / `! t( l/ F5 M) V! p

) }0 u1 T7 v) h; M! C8 Q. F4 a; T人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ L# g4 z; X7 HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 c6 J0 p- u3 H, u8 I5 A

7 U! j+ f' n. |  ?6 hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) M) C4 D) Y4 B; u3 w

0 @8 f' \$ g/ \2 KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! t: J, c+ r1 S4 z) I/ \

: O$ L" j8 q9 z) n! v9 T) h" V* j3 z2 JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 T8 @% z- K! ~Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 N" j  J/ C, J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区7 m& @6 ^+ w( J
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. csuchen.de( \6 M) u7 H: Z, C& Q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & c/ U/ t. |4 {5 \

" _( X6 ?6 E7 X7 {1 E0 a/ m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 F# e* J. v0 w6 `, ?+ p4 A# c. @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."