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7 ^# P% h+ [7 b! }* M2 N在周二英国议会举行的听证会上，邓文迪(Wendi Murdoch)跳起来冲过去保护自己的丈夫，并扇了用一盘剃须膏袭击她丈夫的人一巴掌，那个时候我真想大喊一声：加油，姑娘！csuchen.de. {2 @- P) O2 `0 B8 d5 h! r2 i6 l
' Q) P) ]0 k& [' O1 H鲁珀特·默多克(Rupert Murdoch)与儿子詹姆斯(James)正在为新闻集团(News Corp.)处理旗下小报丑闻一事进行辩护的时候，一名自称是喜剧演员的无政府主义者用一盘子剃须膏泼向默多克，邓文迪跳起来冲向袭击者，扇了他一巴掌。（新闻集团拥有《华尔街日报》。）* Y0 V% E" a* y/ Z$ k5 I! l
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换作是我，我也会这样做。
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" P( G4 S! B) d- U) n据说当孩子受到伤害的时候，母亲会变得很凶悍，可我认为，“熊妈妈”的形像对男女两性都有性别歧视之嫌。无论男女，我们大部分人都有保护所有自己在乎的人的本能（默多克的儿子詹姆斯也跳起来干预，但邓文迪先跳了过去）。诚然，这种本能的强烈程度可能会因人的个性而异。人在德国 社区* R L S2 E4 a: a
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我的这种本能非常强烈，不过我通常能够把它隐藏起来，特别是在工作中，因为在工作中大发脾气和指手画脚是不合适的。不过，要是涉及到我在意的人，你最好赶紧闪人，越快越好。相反，我丈夫对冒犯性的行为容忍度比我高，如果我做了什么让他觉得过激的事，他会感到很难堪。不过，我知道，假如有人做了什么他觉得对我们的家人特别过分的事，他也会立即采取行动。
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我丈夫喜欢讲的一件事是（顺便说一句，他喜欢夸张），有天晚上，他差点在一个电影院的停车场没了命。
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电影刚刚散场，一群小伙子朝停车场里的人扔糖果。我丈夫和我被一些很硬的糖果砸中了，我一下子火冒三丈，从布鲁斯·班纳(Bruce Banner)变成了绿巨人浩克(Hulk)。我当时大喊大叫、拿手指着人家、还昂着头，如此种种。在我怒气冲冲地向小伙子们走过去的时候，我丈夫开始拉着我回到我们的车上。人在德国 社区: ~" M7 w. a. g4 y3 U1 c
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最后，没有人受伤，我丈夫坚持认为我反应过度了。我猜想，对于一个人来说是过激的行为，对另外一个人来说可能是合理反应。
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0 \! R0 H9 I; L7 T& e8 E人在德国 社区尽管如此，我仍忍不住佩服邓文迪跳起来保护她80岁的丈夫。换作是我，我绝对也会这样做。如果是你的话，你会吗？人在德国 社区5 d% p- H# F/ _/ n
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3 v3 w% H( @4 k6 \, H人在德国 社区Murdoch's Wife To the Rescue人在德国 社区6 }$ _; l! B% v% X# ?# x
! V) b1 `( ?! b$ b' n$ c1 Xcsuchen.deWhen Wendi Murdoch leapt up, rushed to her husband's defense and smacked a pie-wielding attacker at a British parliamentary hearing on Tuesday, I wanted to shout, 'You go, girl!': z7 o8 \& O$ t+ K! M' {: B
1 P, Y; Y% L0 F: VAccording to The Wall Street Journal, 'Ms. Murdoch leaped into action when a self-proclaimed comedian and anarchist lunged at Rupert Murdoch─who was testifying with his son James, in defense of News Corp.'s handling of its tabloid newspaper scandal─with a plate of shaving cream. Ms. Murdoch sprang at the man, hitting him with an open-palm slap.' (NewsCorp owns The Wall Street Journal.)
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9 ~! m$ X# I& z) T' VI would have done the same.
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Mothers are said to be fierce when their children are in harm's way, but I think that the image of the 'mamma bear' is sexist, on both sides. Most of us, men and women alike, have an instinct to protect all of those whom we care about (James Murdoch, Mr. Murdoch's son also jumped up to intervene, but Ms. Murdoch got there first). Of course that instinct may vary in intensity, depending on personality.5 R) g0 i j5 H+ t
8 \. j* I: S W0 d. `' W+ _1 b- g; Kcsuchen.deMy intensity tends to be pretty high, but I'm usually able to keep this hidden, especially at work where a quick temper and finger wagging just aren't appropriate. But cross someone I care about and you'd better duck. Or better yet, run. My husband, on the other hand, has a higher threshold for offences and gets quite embarrassed if I do something that he sees as overly aggressive. Though I know if someone were to do something he felt was particularly egregious in regard to our family he, too, would spring into action.
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! E! r# @$ \: w3 p9 K m0 LMy husband likes to tell the story of the night (he likes to exaggerate by the way) he was almost killed in the parking lot of a movie theatre.$ s5 }4 s' g+ i2 @
9 C! B, d9 g3 W7 {, a6 WOur movie had just let out and a group of boys in their late teens was throwing candy at people in the parking lot. My husband and I got zonked with some hard candy and I burst out Bruce Banner/Hulk style. There was yelling, finger wagging, head swerving; the works. As I approached the boys in my rage my husband started to pull me back and toward our car.csuchen.de' G% @: T4 K5 {! J3 m! M" j, v
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At the end of the day, nobody got hurt and my husband maintains I overreacted. I guess one person's overly aggressive behavior is another's reasonable response.: b! A& p R' s9 m
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Still, I can't help but admire Ms. Murdoch for leaping into the thick of the action to defend her 80-year old husband. I would absolutely have done the same had I been in her shoes. Would you?人在德国 社区- l0 k+ v. O4 p2 _% _
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/ L, v: F) ?. N1 |5 X2 D t- j( i人在德国 社区Als „Perle”, „Femme Fatale” oder „Charlie’s Angel” wurde sie gefeiert: Murdochs Gattin |
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