[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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7 w/ G$ a! _  }/ _6 u: Y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; Z7 T# u" P4 j

; r2 k. r5 P$ q) L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# e+ B" M9 b5 H4 P$ {研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 c1 I: o5 i3 `" R  j1 q- ?csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' csuchen.de& J9 i0 d8 P& v1 P6 e7 {$ f
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区1 F  O6 c1 C9 g0 I8 b3 [$ `/ c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' @/ V, x% S) }8 n人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : R7 J3 x$ f$ Q5 N* M

7 l; d  c) o2 G/ W- Z( v4 hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, `* I+ o8 Z, P4 v4 C# ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. h- A- G0 i4 V' M6 R+ Q: e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. csuchen.de  }1 a) x) G, C) n5 d

! f) j, F- o4 G, C& R6 Y& t% ucsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 G' Q5 B0 u* F+ f: f3 m/ {0 \Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 e  R5 I; s( Y* d& @! b( ~) MThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: q1 ^; y" |; GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) _. g/ O0 p. S4 A4 x$ c8 \7 p

. S  @1 n4 \& HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % `) i& |4 `7 U7 W0 i# L& b3 p, h

7 U4 b3 g5 ^3 Q6 }# j) ?( L人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' M( S- _' P- A( Q) G"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + y  B8 M& {% z* o7 e/ p

! O0 w9 S2 b+ ^0 q( a, d& v. `* ecsuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."