[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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( w# v  c: v$ x' z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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& x- P  A$ H: p) H" u% J% X根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- R& G2 b4 A4 l* @5 z. C' R; y研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, F3 u$ t# X) m; _2 v4 [' ZWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 V5 C; e* U5 h2 {& P
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % _& g: ~2 Q5 G: G# q+ F1 M6 K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区4 ~1 Z) y; V. @1 F  \8 U7 h

7 x' @' x3 O# F4 N, f* SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 o0 q# r* X0 E5 ]1 N. q9 k

$ F8 `+ l  d! p9 }"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + t" x- @, ^5 v3 S& N" f' D) ]

6 o3 i7 K1 T. s. t4 Ccsuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 P' @; y+ L( g# R6 n
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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/ w3 r) m3 Q# N/ N3 X! d8 [csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / N% @9 s) X5 c$ W: J

7 J- l" |7 a1 ]# Kcsuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 A4 E0 d% q: ]" X3 l, ~$ |4 x
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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- s: m, A: x; P# F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."