[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区6 i: T, z9 f9 C# \

4 v: [. C2 m8 z! ~) H* X研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。csuchen.de5 {/ ]/ E8 ?2 }' M
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ L0 J! K' ~8 l6 r7 R* w

( i7 J' v: k, X; c5 ZWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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/ [- q( u' w4 ?* D- U$ \High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 a# W" d) A9 [: w1 {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : A: q1 G* Z) ?

( M7 j6 }) S5 }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' J+ ]( R0 ^8 _' g+ ]9 r; rThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ; u5 p9 S, g7 v3 T5 o
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : m( ^; P& z- E# u7 a2 h( H

2 D* \, ^0 o0 D' l7 }人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ R9 w; Z6 z% R2 n

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 |9 J& B* |3 HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 G) a, T8 y+ K人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 R8 N& F$ I# L( a5 _
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 ]' C) u% b( C- R) Q4 h. y; g: {% h& w9 D

* _- {8 c4 @/ E  l/ t8 s# i1 ~"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  ]0 ~. A$ c! k0 f- U人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."