[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 ]4 R% h8 m, S! c3 r. {1 {
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' ^. A( Z9 k$ x

" m9 {. j5 L  ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* C: @+ P- I8 u& y9 O6 Y1 y9 a人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 a" p! z5 G; E( l, q& I研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' csuchen.de9 h+ j3 ], n: D
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! r& H3 a0 R' l: K; p) ~" ZPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + U+ B( W. K4 @& Z0 E5 ^1 p

0 L# l7 X( O3 Z% X# y! \But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - V8 V; S, G8 N  m; O9 ~4 W

- F+ ~- t8 o& |  i人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / Z( K+ s0 a! H

( w! c. |4 q* m0 d7 u9 F8 l: qLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". csuchen.de' \2 i* P( @; E) M# U; O! F# R

( |' e5 F  V. @: y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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+ I/ I3 t5 k7 i& |4 X3 z人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 B+ r" k! r7 O' [5 oUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 b5 Z* e& v1 X

  p8 l: _" u1 v  r$ S. x5 K' XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' ?6 ~  o; d6 {" p人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 X' @' c. w" E* m" `( G
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. csuchen.de$ z% F# P# U5 n

' N1 A; {0 _$ v9 q' v. _csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ p4 F/ j  F6 e& P! ^: yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . ?& B3 y+ n  ~
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; v) Q7 n' e) |; M
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."