[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。csuchen.de3 q, T' T& I  h6 Y

; \2 Y! Y1 B! l- ^9 r( D研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。$ [/ `6 e5 Z& \' R7 h
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; x' e8 U, H4 S& THigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. csuchen.de: @6 V+ ?( g2 q  F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区, T9 w6 P$ n" ?- D  j

0 W) F8 l% ?& JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & z! ~% M/ m3 o9 f

9 T+ M3 \7 z# A* l* F& _# Y: m; s( Z' E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % r3 Y$ u1 m  j
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ r' K  m, A3 X& s7 M* ]- `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区# J* ]8 T$ I2 _: D9 z. B4 a% Z- k
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( Y7 }. \6 T( F; x8 S# g0 E. G. GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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5 ^3 H# m3 ~( I& g# |; ?$ H5 tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. csuchen.de9 s! F( L& n$ P& ~0 I- V

7 V. K2 U5 e! p. F8 g0 b( h! s% V"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + p* {9 C9 o( F4 {
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."