英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 e G, e0 |$ c. K ; o9 ?; f( m& e" d& x2 A4 I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 / D9 U0 i1 e+ P$ u% z9 T9 W& z1 c0 \5 u, |) p% G0 W( N
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 n1 N e2 @0 ~
% n% B4 S: l' w4 D3 V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 |9 z# c; J/ a; P% K$ f
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 ; t% E0 N: T8 e6 Z9 x) W& g2 W, c/ S9 ?7 ]/ E8 q5 l2 U- T2 l
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ; u/ E% W' e6 i3 [0 {) I 8 c4 [( g7 Q; ~: r: \( O- n5 mHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 F3 f4 K# S% q+ l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! w1 q# L' K5 o4 U% Q- S5 R5 t4 y7 ~' a# M# n8 O& Q3 N
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. Z. H6 E% f) y* F8 K4 J5 f* K
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 P$ q8 s3 p. I: A3 q* W* u F9 {* w* A2 P# e( f
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + v2 o6 h' f# r) G$ u Q' c
( C( L& J* [: U3 Z/ m0 v+ u' n6 m"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . Y" `- Q9 n$ ]6 ^1 e
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & J: A8 T+ H5 E, X
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 |4 A, R; s5 t+ d0 |% ?$ Y/ m. ?& ]- M
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / E; y' _9 q" ^ e5 Z1 g9 j" Y7 n5 S4 s! D n. [$ O5 w: e
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0 g. b1 r3 r. g5 f& [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " I3 N* v6 r* @# ^* }% S+ X- t5 l- W: _6 V# J# c- O
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! j$ r# C! @3 X 7 x+ }( E( a. o) SThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % ]) g1 @5 ~+ P+ m+ z6 M0 O& r: a( i. @; x, N) J
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; }* l' m# L1 T& U, L' M
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. r1 ?7 K7 ]! H) I
0 I6 e/ K4 I/ i' \6 u"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( N1 i: A+ Z% p4 l 5 Y6 H6 ^- \- u9 {3 H8 D"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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