英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 5 P" p+ |* b9 ~0 J0 J % z# s9 O+ j1 h5 i& {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 I; ?/ a0 q6 W4 g0 b
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 2 o$ k7 W4 `6 i# E8 H2 I' S8 c' d% H5 `3 Y
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& ~3 g% A4 e% e# J1 g
, D) f3 B2 u5 X研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% N, z6 b( Q: q+ d; u3 X) L2 k
8 ~+ d# c- Z6 b! f5 ?/ O. r- aWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' : U( _" {; C. w2 V) @: l! c5 }
* k+ B# x9 _3 @2 `! DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( |6 A w0 L: i: h: Q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 x. }. S* }) b& E, i: \
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " X) L# F [: r+ Q
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . k3 Z; o U" A1 ?) Y( o! X/ S8 b3 r+ a
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " f4 _9 w/ Z, h& p3 s+ t/ O) I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 r3 \* ], {7 y' Z1 z N+ A " r K6 [, R% i6 o$ J+ ]"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " }4 q0 V$ O* q. c5 P & g% ^ U$ ~8 v iUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / p; m1 E" {5 M3 Z& ~5 T
6 G- k9 Q( x, N% zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 b) o8 M8 s! a. f+ n
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! c" u9 r8 q/ E7 g* q& `5 I
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 s8 X: j# C# O) [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 x$ O# E! O% W: g
1 p$ \( M1 |' c; y4 A& p0 E( I" {But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( r0 z+ d3 [$ W ) I% f8 r9 n! ~8 Y# PIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 a# L+ z: s; z' j8 o, X! a# A6 |2 I
* K7 b* F; D, [. j" X1 }"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + t5 k, i' Y. y e8 l! i, ^% T* Y( W4 ` Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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