英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 2 ` F& I. h _2 u$ B0 j4 n5 I1 \5 }5 u9 t3 @
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 - C" p% m, p8 s& N% s* l' `! M K* l; ?$ f. D ]+ ^, {
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 : q1 _& \( y! ~+ j4 L# ?0 p' X4 Y $ G* z5 c, o5 j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% E2 h, j3 |# b1 c" h' ?1 l
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 5 k- W w9 [% c) g4 L) R% ?4 c , F; j5 \& j5 d1 w, m; F) AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' * T. B% b5 i: k$ o' o. `2 M. M( } . [; B% Q; |9 h, p) a& \High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # i$ f5 K n4 d% o# @% zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 z7 C I ^3 N o: C
0 v& M7 J- V) K9 \- [2 J: UBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : X8 o3 B5 u( |6 z
O. ]9 d+ n' M& @; qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : W- A& v8 {& K- s2 X/ r2 E1 P
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - f0 `( G: j% h: T
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . ~( g5 U; r5 F$ k% q3 s" {
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . ?3 f2 v# y% h0 I ! g# ^$ u5 L7 C3 m7 c6 o: b/ dUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 m( I* v1 j% t n- A1 G
5 S" y% D/ m5 G. R) b+ I& h0 xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % ~& p" @8 M/ u) @ $ D% S. [: |5 u: K rProfession ! \: L6 D8 N8 ^ 1 o7 I% w6 W% |6 }! {$ N$ B- }, vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # s' C4 k# X0 u
- `. ~: ^3 U' e: i+ X) n! _: C( F" pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! J, m# ]$ L3 A2 d2 r
. n% F" ], ?, WThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 d) ]1 L. l1 A0 L; G" v7 o( o- U. ], V$ n K+ r: t
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 L& V( M$ m! P( m7 n
% Y$ i7 \; k4 S& N2 w |0 y) }Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ Q& K9 j& u' P+ F! u# Q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * }; T0 t# e: v) u
/ @" u3 h8 c3 {+ l* B, y; F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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