英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' a0 i% r' q) p- e$ r9 x$ X3 d
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 0 Q6 L! G8 m/ l, V) B; S8 ]1 K2 o9 c5 Y5 I& P/ D3 i
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, V# W. G. o; d* h
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 w) [$ m: h7 |
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。6 ?4 C* ]. T' L- S& W
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # v" L j* [' f j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % ]0 H! ?, {+ n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * `9 y% j/ u+ m) o% ?
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - B! d' _0 u) X& u; v: F# I( D) @ 4 u) j4 t6 R( R C# q6 H6 l3 w. IThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( p0 Y- v: g1 |/ d
; L/ F" z$ K/ A6 c( O% JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 c; ~! P# {. G' Z0 O
- F$ W, |$ Y j6 i+ i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + P) K. L9 O3 |" K- N7 G' m. z( y& [# j: M, _; Y, j: O; \0 b7 U
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & g' \! n4 G8 `5 B4 i! O1 E7 ] M/ {! U" t7 I# E8 e
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ ]8 `1 ?' Y0 C i* A% }% ~# y X3 Y/ o9 h1 m1 \
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; {' h9 h3 } Z# D# g 8 J6 o, r- ~$ }5 [& e. J" IProfession 8 f2 v9 T: g# z. @& F/ ~4 n& f" c- U1 O1 Z& i& A
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. r! _" t- t; w# h
" e5 D, m# N4 W9 {The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : L) w C* w$ ~; D# A7 X ( L% l4 Y7 o3 N: TThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # R( F7 n+ f+ \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 j4 z4 H# V+ j2 g- Y3 j. f- @ ( V4 M5 ?# i$ {& ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * m L) {3 D- ?; b' b) H( [9 L( B$ [* d) t6 U! N
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " |6 [- I& {# d1 l2 B& t! {
5 \ ?7 ?% O8 K"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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