英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ' ]7 i1 v y; C: T . ]* S) z) z. [据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* E% r) r* v" V8 l( o: J
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% {5 d: h& B' S( _/ s
+ o' |9 c& \; T9 V! z* c/ |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 d" c1 U* }' ?+ R
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 4 N8 R6 M/ ~0 @( i n- `: M3 L' n, q6 P0 F0 @3 Z+ S" g9 j, {
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( q+ Y2 W, \& ~" y; L9 ^8 a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 {. Z7 [5 u' `1 v( U! c
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; I0 M( h( l6 {
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , s5 T T, {$ V+ o * R# D6 z- z. y; U) lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 G1 z; S3 M3 l8 k& l+ O4 Y 2 m5 i1 P9 E9 Z" B"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! y) @6 [ _: m% B0 W7 v) U; r 7 m, w7 V: ]+ U6 F0 U3 H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 e! ~5 w h0 Y w- j) z$ a/ I# m; F% I4 e* d. z2 z6 C; X* D2 l
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) E* ?2 V* X& w
, U; E6 ]' A8 ]1 j0 `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 p A4 K* c- U5 @* [ }, j) P. r) ?
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 v1 n% F( `% z3 K
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 @% h# N: Z/ U
5 @) c( i8 i$ k. s. o; |$ c- t+ mThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; A* {/ e4 y9 \! u9 @3 f7 Z ( ~( z9 e, z; ]# s, \4 vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 [8 ~' {$ F! d% ?. ^* M
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 h3 u" F$ e; N4 p ' A4 u, T5 k3 a. F/ z# q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 }( \" O- Q: s! P: P9 t& X9 B + [/ ~( |4 |$ `3 ~8 f8 p% W5 S+ D"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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