英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 9 a$ o4 F& l" F; `- M' c- S; |, ^ x) Q3 G0 ]+ j& k
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 t3 D5 _* C! y. P7 H2 C# D1 a
7 l/ k3 T6 R; V( j2 Y1 r% z! }2 Z! F1 e' V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 2 y/ f% }' j K; m' F6 N/ \ : b3 S: B* q0 E' G( B; o* y+ o5 S根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 ( C8 V: b0 Q4 s. H1 c5 T4 G: X9 w7 } * k2 E' L% }6 H. m4 R研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 3 C# \* `! f* b! l 0 H" H+ r Q9 G/ VWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ! A$ I2 |$ o& h4 J2 X* a5 R5 p4 f' N2 h2 j# k! c6 ~ b7 I! x
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - W5 D; E; G p4 f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % t9 i* Q. ^2 r9 ^2 d' Y" p& l: w9 N- Z8 W, m% P+ h# F [
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 Y" \6 S% L% t2 j. i) O 5 ~: [- Y8 A( z yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' d( x8 R. C1 O
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . S5 F& E0 h/ O' n2 |0 Z# ? 3 c% l4 C: r( L8 s% y) W; X2 ]' Q' y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 h; v9 K$ a6 X; U0 g+ \, Y( H$ t' v0 ]$ C9 D
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : t% ^/ o$ v; G0 r
' _9 ]8 k3 s2 T$ t) gUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 l+ A3 |2 p0 }5 j f5 U + h. E4 C- g# ^9 z9 L& TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 O4 F1 k) H3 v1 L2 D
+ ?& H; u. t* Y' B& l3 sProfession 9 ]- U7 e0 V" B5 g& u, s / I$ C8 b+ F! _Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * n3 K3 R. z7 r$ P) I; [) p+ A5 L6 I$ i9 ~* ?5 j" g
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : R; Y% L& T8 Y+ ]1 P% p
/ _5 \' ?+ V \/ `, D% O; b7 IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 y# y/ R8 Q" U) K. M' P# q; l8 H
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 v3 J. T+ e& W! p3 j" f0 O3 {& N, `( e( Q) m3 k
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 h5 A0 E y7 \- U1 @" B4 n % W R; L1 ~; @( G3 y: u"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . F- _# G( c, \$ H7 j# r' E' Z, B. o, e
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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