英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 U8 m' J/ ^! q* A" {% w/ V. D
, v/ \* t+ X/ @6 ~* \6 p$ j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 2 O& u! Q( n0 E2 e8 n ) s2 O0 G" C- ]- V1 A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 0 ? J; e; D/ j) y* F % \; n, ~# T$ y+ B/ f! I" [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 : t, L; `4 Z2 A/ k. ]' E) ?2 B # W5 ]6 S7 l) }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 7 E' G! s, b, f q5 d4 E1 H( J, B- ] k
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' & T" ^3 z% E0 v# E* ]# k/ a4 @- _( Q# Y1 G
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 g1 t1 q0 b3 w) N) VPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 W- {$ F. G+ W4 W/ r8 }7 a ]1 z d8 h6 L! M+ A7 Z7 T8 }- N# cBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( K% X# r# ?# C1 n" w t" ?7 a. G7 B
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * t m- W9 H! C
, b( }; K7 F, N; L2 k0 l0 KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 H* Q, o' L* n4 m& E0 | `& k; T3 D& Z( U# n
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " @# h. h; z0 Q) u$ Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 g0 i! J' O0 A% e' N4 U 5 H3 Y# h* c: [2 E. CUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : ^9 c/ A$ l9 ?& Z; ?# l% e
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) R! `; E. |3 O1 ?+ ]8 H$ M+ D0 z" V% b; S0 O' v% n
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + M" a4 A- V3 h7 w# Z( w7 Y# n6 o3 {
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * H, {$ e& \ J* O) ^! D; p/ N
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" m, Z" f& H8 u: W: _+ Z4 s/ uBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 l6 U( Y4 R2 t* B8 q 2 C) @, b5 f1 q# X8 hIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) a( W7 l( |+ `; I* v, L
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 _6 a y+ e9 r6 k# c b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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