英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 @# Z* K1 r) c2 w' n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 2 }/ B/ z3 u, I, j5 Y/ L/ z# l# ^ 8 ]. x% L) ]4 d! f* D$ S研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 % ^/ n3 `. v% I! I+ ?- T# ?% [2 f g/ c9 L
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ K H% P1 N+ g4 q6 ~7 G
! @" u) K5 l: [% T6 y研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 0 Z( Q# G' y4 \! R$ ?, r) ?: Y( ]2 O5 }' ^, y, d, {- T
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * `2 \3 T" R$ L; S" S4 X h3 I0 K( N) Y* B( y0 Q) ]7 |! rHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) @1 l! _7 p3 Q& V7 b1 IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 g: e Y6 Z; t3 C0 C
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " u/ U2 z, A" b( o) D+ A5 x7 Z- V8 T+ C2 D
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 P. |4 g. } }# w. I) F
( y" m4 j) i# QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 _& T9 Q3 S5 b' d
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) }$ _7 }, R8 H+ K$ h3 c% ?( ~9 ^' k+ N2 _% {& Y6 V
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; u2 G0 ~' k6 L7 T5 W9 m* c( U! Q( `" C0 s- m$ z5 }) N) }+ o. n
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / F( {. {( ^$ t! i' j# T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , v# u% ^& k% }5 g: d
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & T4 ]) y; ^! [ 8 |- d$ P& z% NThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! {7 [$ K; V' v
+ B& x$ g& w# t7 aThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % G4 T$ m% O5 c$ M& A8 p 0 |# Y/ k: U1 T Z0 oBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & J/ D# U& K$ `4 D' B9 u5 T3 Y* f
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % M* J! m7 q" H3 b0 k+ Y$ K
3 ]9 g+ @6 ~( S* @"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % {" ^4 L: D% V: ^* I
, ^7 s. V6 b9 ]& q; B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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