英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' m& U1 n l& i. f( O8 R# S, Q
$ R1 T- n* c& i9 P6 u# p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; X7 n- y; f+ P9 l
9 X' ]& F$ E4 k4 p研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 Z8 `% e* q' r! [4 _' q7 ~( k
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 * E3 g$ p I8 c3 I; w6 ?$ Y ; x8 \3 O9 c- L$ t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 q# D& N6 y, o, B, P
# q5 M; v, Q# z/ a, R. D0 t. nWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' , D; g5 G$ ~0 p9 S+ G" G" q- z' _8 {$ ]+ V# N, {
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) V6 O: ?5 I- I3 p( k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 F. N/ c8 e. V7 Q$ h
4 T8 Q6 S' p5 O9 J* i/ wBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " U8 f- ]9 a! }% n/ d% t8 ~
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 }; L: B, E7 Q/ ^2 I- h2 h% V . q0 d7 X3 z* i: W( p) l# S. M" }Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 f, Y. p" }5 u2 n6 U# T9 F+ F2 f4 u- x, m* i) C# v* ^. p; }
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! x' p8 w1 c# G
0 U1 r# W. _4 H4 w `+ Z* q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 I% w) Q- R& @; e- l& E/ V/ C' G8 N% b: }
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' Z) q' z/ p" A0 _, b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 D, W: z5 l, h3 c ' O- j L6 V! n2 K1 L( E$ kProfession + a% Y! u; [% u# H: n/ \5 n
2 f# j q- q3 r, @' E0 q+ |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 l' N1 V9 A4 l; S5 Y% Z( u" @+ S 3 s& y$ m$ B# YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * B4 _. I K4 g" S- W- e; |: p- W' V( m0 V
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( x4 Z' S6 }% G# W- L
( K: y6 @% R V+ A0 d# IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; V( Z% v" n9 C$ E. Q8 E
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # Z! |* I6 R# u9 B- G7 x7 G $ i2 M7 m$ p3 x9 b4 D# q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 u" Z4 E; d4 M C3 Z0 |* ?
" {0 ^$ L I# w$ f* {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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